Stepping your game up in college

well the topic for today is stepping your game up in college. at least the school i got to, it's kinda fast paced, the typical NY aura:"If you aint saying nothing,get the fuck outta my face." cool. never been the type of dude to waste time bullshittin' anyway.

me and my boy were sayin how in our aage bracket, females are more likely toask "Where do you work?" or "What's your concentration/major?" as opposed to some lame shit like "Did you see those new kicks?" or "Why can't we go to McDonalds on a date?"....that's all good. i like a female with some sense of goal and direction. and i just like being around self directed people in general. i tend to be very overbearing, dominating and opinionated whenever i'm in a group and i'm usually the only one like that so its a perfect balance.

the most agonizing part is "waiting" for a female to make up her mind about her being with you. bar what any guy says, i do think that a female ultimately decides the whole relationship process. i think thhat us guys just gotta have our game up and show we got some hustle and sense about us. i'm totally not used to waiting on a female, much less one i like..but i always had a knack for getting what i wanted anyway...i'm not gonna say that the one i'm talking to now is "special", per se...but we do have a sort of nice relationship. she's a bit career oriented, so i want her to just be a chill 21 year old. she wants to "help" me out on some issues she thinks i have. now, i've never really based my life about what people think about me, but i have been a bit funnystyle lately. advice is advice,regardless on who it comes from. i do like what she brings to the table, but i do think a month is more than ample time to make a decision on relationship status. and it's not physical. you must get the mental before the physical.

not like i've been totally "monogamous"...but i still have a habit of attracting girls with boyfriends. nothing i intentionally pursue. it is what it is..

on a side note...Imperial Marketing. 2008. more info later.

peace