Male Honesty: Can Females REALLY Handle The Truth?

I thank you all for the positive feedback I'm getting on this blog. I just wanna state my opinions, right or wrong. Enjoy

The inspiration for this blog comes from a convo I had with a friend of mine. You know who you are so I aint gonna put it out there.

I think females are being lied to daily in this society and we've come to accept it as commonly practiced behavior.

The most common culprits of these acts are dudes. Thirsty dudes at that. But the biggest culprits are females themselves! How?

"Oh that's just my friend! He'd never think of me like that. Him, nahhhh". Yes him. In fact, you knew it in your subconscious the day that you met him that he was

• trying to figure out an opener to get with you. You're just so fine that he knows you've heard every line in the book so...
• He looked at your summer dress with your supple breasts and round ass being supported by those nice toned calves stunted by 4 inch pillars and pedicured toes...
• So he came over and just introduced himself by complimenting your sense of style (which every female will claim to have nowadays anyway). No frills. No gimmickry and you liked his style enough to give him your number, BBM, Twitter and email addy (ok, I'm exaggerating but you catch my drift....)

But you, being the opener of the legs, weren't attracted to him sexually for whatever reason. Fellas, ladies always know within 5-10 minutes of meeting you if she'll sleep with you. And dont let them tell you otherwise. In fact, many dudes have talked themselves out of relations with a woman who was willing to sleep with them, myself included. (Another reason why I tend to be more observant and low key *pats self on the back*).

Ladies, you will NEVER know how a guy you're dating truly feels about you until you sleep with him. Mark my words. You set the rules here. *Unless they're like me and just like meeting new people once our agendas dont match up*

There's females I meet and am attracted to personality wise or they just have their own thing and I respect their hustle and can consider them friends.. I consider them "Comriendlers" (Comrades/Friends/Hustlers). I'm not talking about that.I personally can count on my hands out of the females that I consider friends that I have met in my 23 years. I'm talking strictly platonic, almost sisterly. I wouldnt hit it even if they asked me to because I wouldnt wanna ruin it not to mention it being awkward. They ALL know how I feel about commitment and tell me I'm a mess but they've just come to accept it for what it is. My standards are strict because

• the word friend denotes a loyalty that is forged by you both going through experiences that strengthens the relationship. I simply dont have that connect with a lotta people calling themselves "friend"
• I read character pretty well and tend to give people the benefit of a doubt-at arms length sometimes when I first meet them. I sorta tend to size people up and watch the way they interact with others.. I've been told I can be pretty cold when I want to be but when I trust someone, I'm the best friend ever
• I REALLY dislike people with an overbearing need to be in everyone's clique. Male and female. I cant stand a dickrider who's always up in everyone's face trying to be down.
• I'm not gonna be at a loss if I can help it. I kick it, talk whatever and then i'll cut my loss if I dont like what I see.

I simply think females will be shocked if they knew what us guys really think about them. The thing is, a guy just can't walk up to a female and say shit like "Yo...you look right like your titties and ass are mad jiggy...come through to the crib!". Besides the fact that's it's lame, vulgar and tacky, it's not exactly smooth or invitational. Hell, it's not even a challenge to where you'd wanna see more. In fact, he'd prolly be sprayed with Mace and slapped in the face.

Ladies, I dont blame you all for milking the shit out of guys you know want to smash but you keep him in the Friend Zone. It's a dirty game, but someone has to play it. No matter, how much you say he's like a brother to you, you KNOW that if you were to ever get shitted on by a BF and need some new dick, that "brother" would tear your ass up. You keep him around for when your boyfriend fucks up and you need male attention/validations and he's the pawn that obliges your every need. Your emotional tampon if you will.

*Disclaimer: I can say for myself personally (as stated earlier) that I have friends I consider as sisters and "Comriendlers". Ya'll woulda known by now how I felt. The rest of ya'll...hmph.....LMAO*

So with my opinion stated (in my ever present rambling manner), I'll open it up to you all. Can a female really handle the truth about male honesty?