My new approach is to stop having expectations and just take things as they come. I've had to deal with broke pretty chicks, nice girls with daddy/commitment issues, nice girls who want relationships that I'm not ready for, chicks not wanting to get tested, chicks with BFs trying to make me BF # 2 and everything in between, not to mention "singers" and "models". Then I gotta hear how I'm the selfish, defensive one who justifies being an asshole because I apparently attract these types.
Like if I know a girl is a conniving bitch I'll actively choose to continue to date her.
:-/
So...after some time off from the dating game that I took to clear my head and regroup, I found myself out with a new female companion on Friday. The date went well as we did some ill shit.
First, we went to Woo Hop in Chinatown and ya'll already know my greedy ass ordered a lotta food. We then took the Staten Island Ferry back and forth to the city. That was VERY fun and relaxing for whatever reason. Talked and chopped it up about life and stuff. Went for a walk then went our respective ways.
We seem to have great initial chemistry. I dont have to tone myself down or not say certain things and I like that. I can be the grinning sarcastic fellow that you all have come to know and love. I have to be this "semi-PC" guy all the time because I have certain things and it's fun to go out and just bug the fuck out and not worry about being told what to say/how to act....
Things can happen so I'm always prepared but this looks like it'll be interesting.
Shorty isnt Black and that's never really an issue because I relate to people on a human level first. It's gonna be an interesting experience. I got a few dirty looks but I could give a shit less. I date people based on what they bring to the table so it is what it is. I believe is using your best options anyway so....
Funny thing is
Friends:"I could totally see you with a white girl"
Me: "How so? ya'll know I dont give a fuck as long as we can rock out"
Them: "We just could :-X"
My bro: "You got too much bad energy to be with a Black girl"
Me: "????? Fuck is that supposed to mean?"
Funny thing is...I feed off of negative attention more than I do positive attention. I LOVE it.
I just think that people can be ridiculous with dating expectations. If it aint gonna work out, it aint gonna work out with someone. This aint a movie where the dude always gets the girl and shit at the end. Get in where you fit in.
Oh...........turns out Miss Thang is a dancer/choreographer.
I'm slobbering at the "possibilities".
Side note:
Female friend: "What's the point of dating if you dont see yourself marrying the person or being with them longterm?"
Me: *stoneface*
Cant we just have fun sometimes?
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It's funny I was listening to a vid on youtube talking about the same shit. The guy spoke about why is it when you holla at a young black chick, we have to have all these prestige and accomplishments to showcase before any interaction can pop off, but when you holla at a chick from another race none of that matters.. you can just be you and let the chemistry speak for itself. It's crazy... I'm glad to hear you met someone who's cool like that.. and willing to look past all that surface shit
Yessir...I'm glad I met someone too...but more I'm glad I met her after my "time off"
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